Aaj aapka Sarthi kehta hai…
Colleague meri mehnat ka credit le jaata hai
Colleague takes credit for my work
अधिष्ठानं तथा कर्ता करणं च पृथग्विधम् ।
विविधाश्च पृथक्चेष्टा दैवं चैवात्र पञ्चमम् ॥
Hindi: Har karm ke paanch kaaran hote hain: adhishthan (sharir aur jagah), karta (karne wala), alag-alag karan (saadhan aur indriyan), alag-alag tarah ki cheshtaen (koshishein), aur paanchva hai daiv (upar wale ki shakti).
English: The seat of action, the doer, the various instruments, the many separate efforts, and fifth, the divine: these are the five causes of every action.
Yeh Gita ke aakhri, 18ve adhyay ka shlok hai, jab Arjun Shri Krishna se poochte hain ki sachcha tyag aur sannyas kya hai. Jawab mein Krishna Sankhya darshan ka hawala dete hue 18.13 se samjhaate hain ki koi bhi kaam akele kisi ek insaan se nahi hota, uske paanch kaaran hote hain. 18.16 mein woh aage kehte hain ki jo khud ko hi akela karta maanta hai, woh sahi nahi dekh raha.
Credit chori ka dard yeh hai ki koi kehta hai 'maine kiya', aur hum kehte hain 'nahi, maine kiya'. Is shlok mein 'karta' paanch kaaranon mein se sirf ek hai, aur 'daivam panchamam' yaad dilata hai ki result kisi ek ki jaagir nahi. Yeh shlok aapka kaam chhota nahi karta, balki colleague ki 'akela main' wali kahani ko bhi jhootha saabit karta hai, aur aapke gusse ka zeher bhi utaarta hai.
Katha: Barbarik ka sach aur PowerPoint ka chor
Rohan Verma, 29, Pune. Raat 2 baje tak chai ke teen cup pee kar client presentation banayi. Agle din meeting mein Sharma ji ne slides chalaayi aur bole, 'Humne raat-bhar mehnat ki.' Rohan ne socha, 'Humne? Aap toh 10 baje WhatsApp pe good night bhej kar so gaye the!'
Ab Rohan lunch mein bhi dal-chawal ko aise ghoor raha hai jaise woh bhi Sharma ji ki team mein ho.
Mahabharat yudh ke baad Pandavon mein bahas chhid gayi ki jeet ka asli credit kiska hai. Bhim bole, 'Maine Duryodhan ko maara.' Arjun bole, 'Mere Gandiv ne Karn aur Bhishma ko giraaya.' Tab Krishna unhe Barbarik ke paas le gaye, jiska sheesh ek pahadi par rakha tha aur jisne poora yudh dekha tha. Barbarik muskuraaye, 'Mujhe toh har taraf sirf Krishna ka Sudarshan chakra kaatta dikha.' Sabka 'maine kiya' wahin thanda pad gaya.
Mera mujh mein kuch nahin, jo kuch hai so tor. Tera tujhko saunpte, kya laage hai mor. (Kabir)
Rohan ne samjha ki Sharma ji ka 'humne' utna hi adhoora hai jitna uska 'maine'. Isliye gussa chhoda, par chup bhi nahi raha. Agli baar har kaam ka chhota sa email summary manager ko bheja, aur meeting mein shaanti se bola, 'Slide 7 ka data maine nikala tha, main samjha deta hoon.' Sach ko shor ki zaroorat nahi, bas saaf awaaz ki.
Jo kaam aapke haath se nikla hai, uska hunar aapke andar hai, koi slide chura sakta hai, skill nahi. Agli presentation phir aapki hi hogi.
- Har bade kaam ke baad manager ko 3-4 line ka chhota email bhejo: kya kiya, kab kiya.
- Meeting mein khud apne kaam ka ek point shaanti se bolo, bina kisi ko blame kiye.
- Raat ko sone se pehle ek baar khud se kaho: 'Maine apna hissa imaandari se kiya, baaki Krishna ka.'
Mantra: ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय (Om Namo Bhagavate Vasudevaya) — subah office jaane se pehle 11 baar, shaant mann se.